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Size Doesn’t Matter
By Peace | November 12, 2006
Girl Reading By Charles Perugini
It’s how you feel about yourself (feeling confident for who we are and how we look like) that matter.
Yesterday, I was reading The New Paper and one article caught my attention. It was written by Edwin Yeo, a columnist. The title goes like this: Why do some women walk around with …. A-cup-size worth of insecurity?
He said this: Truly, size doesn’t matter. I’m talking about women’s breasts.
The reason for him to write on this topic is because last week, the paper reported about a boob job which went wrong. This woman in the end lost both her breasts. Why this woman wanted to go for operation? The reason for doing so was that she wanted to be pretty after her divorce.
Edwin reported, ‘When did big breasts equal beauty?’
Not all women with big breasts are beautiful. Some women have big breasts but their face looks ugly. Some women who are borned fat have naturally big breasts. While some other women with big breasts are because they undergo surgery.
Why do so many women want to undergo breasts augmentation?
Does making the breasts big make women more confident?
I think that is very stupid.
Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Every person has a different views of beauty. I find that if a man truely loves a woman, he WILL NOT care about the size of the breasts. For some people, the wife has to cut off one or two of the breast due to cancer. Does it means that that is the end of their marriage? If the man really has a different views of this when the wife has lost her breast, then she can forget about this man.
For man who encourages the wife to go for breasts augmentation, I also despise them. I mean, all this are just external beauty. You are putting your wife’s life at risk when she is going for all this surgery. You are putting something ‘foreign’ into her body. People will grow old one day. Does the pair of breasts still look good if your wife became old one day? Imagine a pair of big breasts but her face is old and haggard, with wrinkles? If all you care is external beauty then is this marriage or relationship going to be happy and meaningful?
Rather than spending unnecessary money on these things, why not spent the money on more meaningful things, whereby the couples can improve on their relationships, the women can enjoy themselves through other means, or you can let your money grow, preparing for your future, rather than squandering your money.
Even if I have money, I will not go through this kind of pain and is an insult, especially if you are doing it for your partner. This is just my own opinion. Everyone got the right to do what she likes. Of course if you got too much money and do not know how to spend them, then why not!
I do not have big breasts and I am happy with the way I am now. I am contented with my look and am physical appearance. One thing that I hope is I hope to have perfect vision. But that is not possible unless I go for surgery. But there is a risk also and also I don’t have money to do that. So I just got to live with it!
I think a lot of women are beautiful in this world. You just got to get to know them in order to know their beauty. Guys who says they want big breasts women don’t know what is love. They only know what is sex.
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