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Liars Hurts
By Peace | January 26, 2007
Liars and Cheaters - The SILENT lethal weapons that pierced right through the heart and goes beyond your back!
Liars are ‘germs’ that causes you to develop chronic pain in your life. Liars sucks. Liars are just jerks and inconsiderate brats. They don’t know what they are doing to other people. They just want to seek their own pleasure and fame.
I am hurt by the sword of liar. My heart is bleeding. I have written two articles at Helium as below:
How to spot a liar
A liar is someone who tell you lies time and time and over and over again. Ask a liar a question a few times over a period of time and you get different answers. A liar never fulfilled his/her promise. A liar always divert away from the questions which you ask. They do not want to tell you the truth.
We do not say a person is a liar on first time he/she tells lies. But a person who repeated break his/her promise and who always pull your legs, we called them liar. And we can tell them straight forward,”You are a liar.”
A liar is never serious in what you say and he/she is not interested in how you feel either. He don’t sound sincere in his/her speech, and he does not have a clear view of what he is talking either. A liar tends to smirk also when the truth is revealed.
A liar also behaves differently from people. You can tell from their body language and the tone of voice they are talking. Sometimes they tend to cover their eyes with their hands and smirking all the way. They have no sincerity at all from the look of their eyes. A liar is never serious and a liar is always boastful.
Is chatting online considered cheating?
There are many sources of online chatting nowadays — you can find online chatting via MSN/Yahoo messenger, Skype, and even via Secondlife. Is chatting online considered cheating? In my opinion, it all depends on the intention of the person who goes online. There are many sorts of people who go online to chat nowadays. It is a very complicated world. First let’s see why people want to go online to chat. Many times people go online to chat when they have problems or when they are bored. There is something ‘missing’ in their lives, a needs from them that is not being met. So they go online to search for their needs.
In my opinion, I think single people who are not attached can go online for chatting. They are not committed to any partners and they have their choice of making more friends online. On the other hand, attached people and married people should not go online to chat. Even if out of boredom, love will be developed through time also through online chatting. This will lead to problems in the existing relationships.
Attached people and married people should share their weals and woes with their partners. As partners and as husband and wife, there should be no secret. There should be open conversation. When this communication breaks down, problems exist in the relationship. Hiding secrets are abnormal and detrimental to the relationships in the long run. Thus online chatting is definitely CHEATING!
Some people go online chatting to look for other partners. Some go online chatting to look for sexual pleasure. Whichever reasons, emotional feelings are attached through time. Everyday these people ‘meet’ online and chat, talking about their lifestyle, personal things etc. A lot of people, especially men, go online to chat when their wife is working. Some people even met up after chatting online to have sex. So do you think this is not cheating?
Online chatting is definitely cheating for attached people and married people, if not now is later, it’s just a matter of time that this online chatters found themselves being emotionally ‘drawn’ to their favourite partners online rather than their real life partners.
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Online chatting had caused many marriages and relationships to broken. It also helps singles to become couples. Chatters need to know where they stand and they must be morally right. There are cases where married man and married woman chatted online and they began their secret affairs, causing family breakups and no peace in the family. The internet is accessible by all people. At the end of the day, you are responsible for your own actions. Think of the consequences. A lot of consequences follows after emotional attachment and development of ‘love’ develop through online chatting.
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