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Ramble Grumble
By Peace | November 26, 2007
Do not judge a book by its cover
Everyday I am very fed up with him. On the outside, he looks so gentleman, he looks so nice in front of everybody. But at home, you would not be able to see… Drinks spilled and not clean up. Coffee cups, plates accumulated on his desk. When told, he would say he was merely trying to lure all the ants out. He wants to be a rich person from the day I know him. However, what is rich in his eyes? Having more money which is not his or acting ‘rich’?
Do not trust anybody
For knowing him, I got to know that things are not just what you see. Things are not just what you say. Do not believe what you see and what people say.
Is it for show or is it you care
He said money is so easy to earn. He told me to go facial, go massage and buy nutritional supplements. I do not know if I should believe what he said. Are those from the bottom of his heart. He said those words in the shopping complex, in the store. Perhaps that is just another way to ’show off’ in front of the sales staff!
If Pills are so good, Everybody, Don’t eat food, eat pills — No need to cook anymore, save time, save energy.
Back home, he never care about eating good food. He never care about children’s work or children’s welfare. I can only see him ‘gambling’, not investing. If he has money and not debts, I would ‘listen’ to what he says. Can you imagine somebody who do not want to eat good food, somebody who do not know anything about healthy food, but want to eat nutritional supplements? I would not want to waste money buying pills to replace food!
Can You Satisfy Everybody?
These are things which really frustrate me. Yesterday, we went to my mother’s house. Before that, we went for lunch at West Mall. I would rather eat at the coffee shop, across Bukit Batok MRT station than to eat at the food court in West Mall. However, I think the children would not want to walk the extra distance. Neither would he. (Things would be simpler if I am alone. But with more people, more trouble and more ‘face’ to be looked at.)
How You Define “ANYTHING”
Asked him anything, the answer is ‘anything’. If I made some decision later, all my decisions are not just ‘anything is fine’.
Food Options at West Mall
Delifrance is gone. No more Delifrance at West Mall. Upon entering the entrance opposite of M1 shop, I saw Subway, the usual place where Delifrance used to be there. One option for eating our food was gone. Next, we turned right, we saw Pastamania. You need to walk out of the building, at the other side of it. Too troublesome to walk out. We went upstairs. Swenson and the Chinese Restaurant. I thought we could eat at the Mouth Restaurant, which was previously there. However, again, it was replaced by the present Chinese restaurant, which I do not know its name.
How much can you save? Money or Food? Money or Pleasure?
The guy was all quiet and not contributing anything. Ask him to make decision, he said ‘anything’ and now he finally said ‘go food court’. It is cheaper to eat at food court.
Money Throw Down The Drain
I am fine eating at food court. But the problem is I hate the food court at West Mall. Nobody would believe me why I hated it so much. It was squeezy feeling the first time I went there. The second time, no good food, and crowded (so space). The third time, and the last time, which was yesterday, had really let him opened his eyes.
Pay to suffer
As soon as I stepped in, I did not feel like eating. I did not feel like sitting down. All because of him, his decision. Because of him, three people were unhappy. Was he happy?
These was the food we ate. It was not fantastic, but still edible.
Free ‘music’, prick the ear drum
Eating there, we saw many passers-by reactions and heard all the ‘piah! piah!’ sound. Plates, cups all dropped on the floor. Dirty places, people walking past, shaking heads and some even remarks saying,”This kind of place how to eat!”
Open Your Eyes
Man is the head of the household. Is this the right kind of head to follow? Children learn the bad things. His hair-cut, the gangster hair-style. He wants ‘children to speak with elitism’, that is what he said when he watched TV one of the days. He asked why the children cannot do this and cannot do that. He said some children are so clever, 5 years old can surf, 12 years old know soccer, this and that. Did he know how to help in anything? Will children learn anything without teaching? Without teaching, children only copy from you, learn from examples. Bad things are learned easily while good things are never learned.
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