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The LIZARD TALES
By Peace | December 27, 2010
wood of the cradle
人善被人欺，马善被人奇！ Learn this from Richard Toh. He is FOR ALL, and I am FOR JUSTICE; not against anybody. The meaning of these chinese words means that if you are too kind, you are going to be bullied by people. If the horse is too kind, then people will ride on the horse…. FACE THE BOOK (to be continued)!
Dead Lizard AT THE GATE
Just came back from Causeway Point. Saw my mother-in-law and we chatted outside Cold Storage, standing in front of the entrance of Cold Storage where there were cut flowers around (mostly Chrysanthemum…people usually buy these flowers for altars or offerings to the dead). Over here, I enquired about their past… I had always wondered lots of things about this family…
Just went to Farrer Road yesterday and it was again the ‘same old story’, but this time, I ‘had learned’, but now it is my daughter!!!
Predator and PREY relationship
It is a long story and ugly truth if going to reveal. People just want to “EAT” people regardless of their wealth. Looks like eating food is not even enough for people! People want to find a wide arrays of food to satisfy their desires, and they also want to “EAT” people to FIND PLEASURE AND AMUSEMENT perhaps.
Just look at the impact of the plants can cause to a pot.
A Pot of Lime Shrub in the Dragon Urn
Broken Dragon Urn with Emerging Plants (Ferns)
Education
What is the outcome of Education? Are people too free? Then they should find something constructive to do. Participate in some voluntary work. Old parents at home, visit grandparents, helped out… instead of doing some meaningless things.
BIG AND SMALL
My sister always stressed that she is ‘big’ and I am ‘small’. It is true. No deny that she is indeed older than me and I younger than her. She would not want to come to my house, the reason being the fact that she is more senior than me and so the junior should go to the senior house and not vice versa. Since young, she is not happy with me and always feel that my parents dotes on me and my brother. Ask any parents if they DISLIKE any of their children. I do not mind going to the “Young” people’s house. I do not mind if you call me a dead lizard or any other names. But if YOU, my sister, knows how to defend and protect your children, I also ought to know how to protect my children. What’s more, how can my small children ever harm your children who are ‘older’ than my children? Is there any logic? And when I send KIND SMS of GREETINGS to you, I am being criticized and “CHO” (scolded) for sending some SMS to her out of sarcasm or some sorts (non-stop “Cho-ing”) I was so grieved. A fun and loving SMS I had shared with her, end up a “NIGHTMARE” and destroyed my day, some years back.
And today, what happens to her children? And how many times in front of me, how her children treated my children? I kept quiet. You, the ELDERs, are around. I am the younger one, I have NO RIGHTS to reprimand anybody. YOU even COMMENTED on my wrong teachings to my children. I NEVER taught you anything. I am in NO POSITION to do any teachings to my senior, my sister, my brothers. I am the YOUNGEST IN THE FAMILY, my parents’ youngest child.
Today, all my nieces and nephews are grown-ups. I AM NOT THEIR SENIORS? My children are their juniors. HOW had I TREATED THEM when they were young? ASK THEMSELVES. DID I ILL-TREATED THEM? ASK THEM HOW I TREATED THEM???? And HOW DID I EVER ASK ANYTHING OF THEM, my dear nieces and nephews?
Is this WHAT I GET, the kind of RESPECT and to my children?
By saying this, I am not harbouring any grudges, but stating the FACTS. Facts are Facts. JUST the fact that I AM BORN YOUNGEST, does not mean that ANYBODY CAN STEP ON MY TAIL!!!!!!!!!!!!
The GUYS are not protecting the girls. And woman are still ‘stabbing’ on WOMEN, and little girl still. What is the result of BEING A CHILDCARE TEACHER and working in a hospital, caring for people?
Need it be more precise? I am not going to earn a honour degree also. I am just a mere housewife, with no earning potential, and have NO RIGHTS……..
JUST Who is right and who is wrong?
張學友&鄺美雲 – 祇有情永在
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